What it's actually like to see a Nutritional Therapist
- henrimay
- Apr 21
- 4 min read

(And why it's not about diets)
I was at a networking event recently and after introducing myself, someone said,“So you do diets and stuff?”…while subtly backing away.
It made me smile, because it’s such a common assumption.
And although food is obviously part of my job, it is actually a much smaller part than people think.
And what it definitely is not… is taking food away.
In fact, most of my work looks quite different from what people expect.
A different way of looking at your health
What I do is often described as a root cause approach.
In simple terms, that means I am not just looking at the symptom itself, but asking why it is happening in the first place. This way of working sits within something called functional medicine, which simply recognises that the body works as a whole.
Digestion affects how well you absorb nutrients. That influences energy, hormones, immune function and even mood. Your gut is in constant communication with your brain. Stress can affect digestion. Sleep can affect blood sugar.
So rather than asking only what needs to be cut out, I am usually asking a different question altogether. Why is your body struggling in the first place?
I often describe it using the image of a tree. The fatigue, bloating, cravings or disrupted sleep you feel day to day are like the leaves. They are the visible signs. But if something is off at the root level, those leaves will keep returning.
So my job is to look beneath the surface, understand what may be driving those symptoms, and support the body from there.
What happens in a consultation
The first consultation is never rushed. We begin with a detailed questionnaire, but more importantly, we sit down and talk. Properly.
There is space to explore what has been going on for you, not just in terms of symptoms, but your day to day life. Your sleep, your stress, your energy, your routines, your history, your family patterns, and yes, what you eat, but also how you eat and how that feels.
Often, this is the first time someone has had the chance to join all those dots together.
From there, a clearer picture starts to emerge.
Why digestion matters
One of the first places I often look is digestion. Not just what you eat, but how well your body is actually breaking that food down and absorbing it.
Because if nutrients are not properly absorbed, the body simply cannot use them to produce energy, balance hormones or support repair.
And within that sits something called the gut microbiome, the collection of bacteria living in your digestive system which is as unique as your fingerprint.
And it plays a far bigger role than most people realise, influencing everything from digestion to immune function to mood.
When we need more clarity
Sometimes that initial picture is clear enough to move forward straight away.
Other times, we need a little more detail.
This is where functional testing can be helpful. It allows us to look more closely at areas such as gut health, hormones or nutrient status, so we can refine and personalise the approach further. Testing adds another layer of clarity and precision.
A considered approach to supplements
There is a common perception that supplements are harmless or interchangeable, but in practice they can influence your biochemistry and need to be chosen carefully.
Every recommendation I make is considered in the context of your symptoms, your history, any medication you are taking, and how different nutrients interact with each other.
This is particularly important because some nutrients can affect how medications are absorbed or used in the body.
So the goal is never to add more for the sake of it. It is to give your body exactly what it needs, in a way it can use.
Food, without restriction
Food, of course, still plays a role, but perhaps not in the way people expect.
This is not about strict rules or taking everything enjoyable away.
More often, it is about small, strategic changes that support your body more effectively.
Stabilising energy so you are not riding the afternoon slump. Improving nutrient intake so your body has the raw materials it needs. Supporting digestion so those nutrients are actually absorbed.
And importantly, it has to fit your life.
There is no point creating a perfect plan that works beautifully on paper but falls apart in the reality of work, family and everything in between.
Ongoing support and progress
The work does not stop after that first consultation.
In many ways, that is just the beginning.
We continue to meet, review what is working, and adjust things as we go. This is where real progress happens, with support, accountability and a plan that evolves with you.
What you can expect
Perhaps the most important part of all of this is support.
You are not expected to do this perfectly or to overhaul your life overnight.
Instead, I am there to guide you, adjust things when needed, and cheer you on along the way.
Because knowing what to do is one thing.
Putting it into practice, in the middle of a busy life, is something else entirely.
Over time, what most people notice is not a dramatic overnight transformation, but something quieter and more meaningful.
Energy becomes more stable. Cravings lose their intensity. Digestion feels more comfortable. Mood steadies.
They feel more like themselves again.
If you have ever had the sense that you are doing all the right things but still do not feel quite right, there is usually a reason for that.
And it is not a lack of willpower.
Often, it is simply that your body needs the right kind of support, in the right way.
If you are curious about whether this approach could work for you, you are very welcome to get in touch or book a free initial chat to explore it further. Click here to set up a chat.




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